When Crisis Hits..

Stressors in the home can either strengthen or pull apart a family. Most likely it is the latter of the two which is sad. When crisis hits families usually respond negatively and let the problem tear them apart no matter how strong they are. why? Why is this? Why can't families figure out that they must take whatever is thrown at them. Giving up is cowardly, disrespectful to yourself and others, and defiantly not an option. Its like making a cake and not eating it. Who does that? To there are only a couple reasons for someone to break a relationship. Why work so hard, take so much effort and time to just diminish a good bond. That is why I believe we must use our trials to strengthen our ties to our families and relationships. Trials are a great tool for people to grow closer together. having the same experience is what brings people together in times of crisis. Often when a sibling dies the others become close all of a sudden. This is because they had to lean on each other because who else understood their situation?  When disaster strikes we must use our resources and choose how to respond. Our choice in what way to respond will determine how the whole process will go. This is important. no matter what the situation choose a good response. There is something good in everyday no matter what else happens. Use our trials and hardships to build our relationships with those we will be with for eternity, and with those we will be with here on earth. Being positive and reasonable is the best way to be. Do not let stressors pull a home apart, let them build a more stable home.